Got Wedding Etiquette?

  It seems that when a couple decides to marry it is just one joyous party after another until the final bash, better known as the wedding reception.   Scenes from the Wedding Crashers are now dancing in my head.   Sorry for the detour; moving on... Each party comes with its own set of etiquette rules and traditions.   For example, some pre-wedding parties are typically gift-giving events, such as the wedding shower, while the bachelor, bachelorette, and engagement parties are not.   And what about the wedding reception?   What if the couple decides to marry out of state and most close friends and relatives cannot attend?   Is it proper to host a belated reception?   And, if it is proper, how long after a wedding is it appropriate to host a reception?   So many questions. Perhaps a bit of Q & A can guide us toward being better, more polite, guests and hosts, while answering all those pesky questions.   Do I attend my friend'...

  Consider These Ideas Venue Host your wedding and reception at the same venue. Choose a wedding date in a less popular month or on a Sunday. Food Buffets served as food stations are usually less expensive than a sit-down meal and can be very special. A cake and beverage reception is perfect for an event early in the day. Beverages Limit alcohol to beer and wine . Purchase your alcohol in bulk from a discount store. The shorter your event is, the less you will need. Entertainment & Archivists Hire photographer/videographer for the wedding only and ask friends to fill in the gap. Contact the music department of the local high school or college about musicians. Tap Friends for Ideas Visitor Suggestions Buy one small decorative cake to show and serve a different Costco-style cake to eat. Ask a friend to become ordained to marry you.  It's cheaper than paying for one. Please leave your ideas in the comment section to share with others...