Notify guests of destination wedding welcome party?

Hawaii; Waikiki; Honolulu; destination wedding; travel

Dear Polite One,

We are planning a destination wedding, the save-the-date cards are mailed, and the invitations will be mailed two months before the wedding. I am planning a welcome party for my guests on the beach the evening before the wedding, but don't know how I inform guests. Does something need to be included in the invitation enclosure, or something separate? Do I wait and notify those who accept the invitation?

Regards,

Bride

Dear Bride,

This information could be included as an enclosure with your invitations. This is a very considerate gesture on your part. None of the brides who have contacted me inquiring about destination weddings have considered a party for their guests who must travel.

Bravo!

Sincerely,

The Polite One

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