What is Semi-Formal Wedding Attire?

Dear Polite One,

I could not find "semi-formal" and “business casual” in your article on dress codes. My nephew says his wedding is "semi-formal" but I don't think that is what he means. Can you help?

Beth

Dear Beth,

Semi-formal is the most confusing dress code because it can mean different things depending on the occasion. For example, semi-formal for a ball may mean party dresses with lots of material. Still, in most cases, it means a suit for men and a cocktail dress for women—the little black dress or its equivalent.

Cocktail attire is a much better dress code for weddings, although this can never be written on invitations. Only ‘formal’ or ‘black tie’ is written on wedding and reception invitations.

Business casual is also elusive. It means high-quality clothing that is more casual and suitable for work settings. Typically, this is slacks such as dockers with polos and shoes that require polishing for men. Women may wear nice slacks, skirt, appropriate blouses, sweater set, or polo—nothing too tight, too revealing, or too short.

Sincerely,

The Polite One

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