Rehearsal dinner invitations with no inner envelope?

Dear Polite One,

Our invitations do not have an inner envelope. How do we address the outer envelope to a family where everyone is invited and for those with an "and guest"?

Inviting

Hello Inviting,

Unfortunately, you would have to use the ‘and family’ and ‘and guest’ form. But please do not invite too many guests to your rehearsal dinner. This party should be reserved for those involved in the wedding. Although it is a nice thought to invite out-of-town guests, it can resemble a reception. This should be an evening for winding down, toasts, handing out attendant gifts, and getting to bed early.

Sincerely,

The Polite One

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