What to Wear to a Wedding at a Golf Course?

Dear Polite One,

I'm going to a wedding in August that starts at 7:00 in the evening. It is not a church wedding; it will be held at a golf course and park meeting center which is genuinely nice. What should my husband and I wear, and should I wear hosiery?

Anne in North Carolina

Dear Anne in North Carolina,

More than likely, this will be cocktail attire. So, your husband would be best dressed in a suit and you in a warm-weather cocktail dress—the little black dress or its equivalent.

Hose is unnecessary and a fashion faux pas with open-toed shoes.

Enjoy!

The Polite One

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