Aussie Destination Wedding; Two Receptions?

Dear Polite One,

I was reading your online article, "Consider All Parents When Planning Your Wedding" and hope you can give me some advice concerning my destination wedding in Australia. Since many of our guests live in the U.S., they won't be able to attend. So we want to have a party in the U.S. in addition to the Australian reception. Is it appropriate and if it is, should it be held before or after the wedding?

Thank You,

Sincerely,

Puzzled

Dear Puzzled,

Quite often the destination wedding couple will host a reception for friends and family at their home after the wedding. This can be as elaborate as you wish, and if held soon after you return home you may wear your gown. It can be held in multiple locations for the convenience of your guests and at any time you wish.

Sincerely,

The Polite One

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