What is a proper encore wedding gift?

Dear Polite One,

While not a first for either of my friends, they are getting married after living together for a decade. Since she is an avid cook, I considered new knives but am not sure if this is considered a proper wedding gift.

Best Friend

Dear Best Friend,

You are a very generous friend. It is a great gift.

Sincerely,

The Polite One

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