Is it proper to have a male as the bride’s attendant?

Dear Polite One,

My daughter wants to have her very good friend as a bridesmaid but doesn't know the groom well. He is a wonderful person and has agreed. We don't have a problem with it but wonder how he will be a bridesmaid. How does he walk back down the aisle, with a groomsman or by himself? There are six bridesmaids and groomsmen each including him.

MOB

Dear MOB,

This is very common for weddings these days. He would be a bride's attendant, not a bridesmaid. He would dress as one of the groomsmen with his corsage in the same color as the bridesmaid's bouquets. He would walk with the bridesmaids and stand with them. He can walk with a groomsman or no. He just wouldn't walk arm-in-arm with him.

Sincerely,

The Polite One

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