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To whom to address the check?

 woman; woman with cash; money

Dear Polite One,

I am giving a check as a wedding gift. Can you tell me to whom do I write the check? Would it be to the bride in her current (maiden) name? To Mr. and Mrs.? Your help is appreciated thanks.

Visitor

Dear Visitor,

It is best to address it to the couple, using their married name.  

Sincerely,

The Polite One

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