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Is a 30th-anniversary vow renewal in Hawaii proper?

Hawaii; vow renewal; beach; couple

Hi Polite One,

We are renewing our wedding vows after 30 years of marriage in Hawaii. It will be on a small beach at sunset only with the two of us. Our attire is a black ankle-length light weight dress with Hawaiian flowers at the bottom for me and my husband has a matching Hawaiian shirt with shorts and no shoes. Is this proper?

Hamilton, Ohio

Dear Visitor from Hamilton, Ohio,

This is perfect. No worries. Actually, your attire is very appropriate for a vow renewal. It isn’t supposed to appear to be a wedding. You will be dressed for a cocktail party, which is very appropriate. And, black has no negative connotations anymore. It is considered chic.

Sincerely,

The Polite One

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